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Suicide attempts up in Lake Havasu City
Upcoming meetings seek to provide help to community

By JACKIE LEATHERMAN
Today's News-Herald
Published Sunday, November 13, 2011 12:23 AM MST

Christina Avis got the call in April that made her sick to her stomach, she said.


Two community events will be held this week to inform residents about depression and suicide-related thoughts and behavior in addition to a suicide survivor conference. Jackie Leatherman/News-Herald Photo Illustration

“When you lose a child, especially something like that,” said the 40-year-old Lake Havasu City resident. “I was very, very sick and upset. All I wanted to do was to be there for the family. I’m still trying to get (the mother) in counseling and it’s not working.”

Avis learned eight months ago that her best friend’s 18-year-old son committed suicide by first drugging himself then placing a plastic bag over his head, she said.

“That’s been devastating,” she said. “The way she talked about it, was that she didn’t see any signs. The signs that were there weren’t as obvious because of his age.”

The number of attempted suicides across Lake Havasu City increased 157 percent from 2007 to 2010, according to police reports. And from January through July, the number of attempts had hit nearly 39 percent of last year’s attempts.

The number of reported suicides increased 54 percent from 2007 to 2009, but decreased 40 percent in 2010.

“From what I’m seeing over the past three to four years, the number of suicide attempts has trended up,” said LD Lumpkin, the clinical social worker with Havasu Behavioral Health who evaluates attempted suicide patients taken to Havasu Regional Medical Center. “Certainly, with the changing of economy, we’ve seen more and more people with more and more financial problems and pressure and depression. We’ve seen some of that show itself in the ER with suicide attempts.”

Lumpkin said he’s seeing more substance abuse – mainly alcohol – associated with the attempts in recent years.

“Certainly, the number one offender, in terms of leading to suicide attempts and suicide depression and gestures and depression is alcohol,” he said. “A large percentage of the (people) coming in who are suicidal or made suicide (attempts) have been drinking. Guys now coming in with maybe marital problems and substance abuse problems, in the past would work. But now with the economy, not working, the one area in their life that was going well, they don’t have that area of respite. So now whatever psychological or social or emotional issues, maybe substance abuse, all those collide together and cause a person to feel like there is no help. Once that person feels like there is no hope, then the idea of suicide to them becomes an option.”

Robert Starkey, who created the popular Facebook page “Havasu Scanner Feed,” said the volunteers who monitor the police and fire scanners and post calls to the site noticed the number of suicide attempts being radioed from dispatch to emergency personnel.

“We saw an increase,” Starkey said. “We listen to the calls that go out. We saw it as an issue within our community. That’s what brought it to our attention.”

The volunteers organized a one-stop shop for depression and information related to suicidal thoughts, behaviors and help. The event will be held Tuesday. A local suicide support group has also organized a conference Saturday at a local church for survivors of suicide to learn more information and coping skills.

Starkey said Tuesday’s event is to help residents learn about help that exists in the community.

“We are just trying to make the resources available and let people know there is help out there,” he said. “What are some of the unknown signs? Some of the subtle signs? If we were more aware of the topic and more aware of the signs to look for, we can be the ones to refer that person and put them in the right place that could possibly save their life.”

Avis said her work schedule prevents her from attending Tuesday and she doesn’t think her friend will go.

“I’m trying to figure out how to get her to go to one of those,” she said. “I doubt she will. It’s sad and frustrating all wrapped up into one. She tries to go on like normal. It’s not working. I’m trying to figure out anything and everything I can do to help her and nothing’s worked so far.”

You may contact the reporter at jleatherman@havasunews.com

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    in love with havasu wrote on Feb 6, 2012 11:10 PM:

    " We have been reading more and more about people being depressed, and acting out of character. Our neighbors 21 year old son, - otherwise in good health, in a relationship, employed, and with two children of his own Shot himself in the head and died two months ago. I remember reading an article talking about how Lake Havasu, when compared to other communities the same size, has more than double the amount of people trying to hurt or kill themselves. One thing that comes to mind also, is the fact there are many American Soldiers coming back from war. There are some serious issues related to brain trauma, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, (PTSD) - and my guess, - the issues are only just beginning. Also, there seems to be so much need out there, and very limited resources to help. The article I read was several years ago; so if the issue was of concern then; and over the last three years the issues have nearly tripped, - then I'm wondering at what point the need for services will outweigh the financial setbacks. The way I imagine it is either way, we as a community will pay. Why not pay in effort of life retention and aid. It has to cost money for medical care, and specialized call-outs at night for social workers, and also the medication, and first responders. If someone attempts, - they need an ambulance, fire paramedics, and the Police / Sheriff's Department gets involved. All this costs money, and time. I've watched and witnessed the horrible emotional impact our neighbors recent loss has had on thier entire family. I would imagine depending on the severity, these issues would also impact the first responders who have to witness the results, and notify the family. This is a terrible situation; and when someone arrives at the point in thier life when they are seriously contimplating taking thier own life, or trying to get someone else to hurt them, - like, "suicide by cop" and other crazy reactions - something needs to be done. We always hear about how there are large differences between how many crimes, and certain issues go unreported. If they are saying double and tripple numbers over the past three years for issues which had been reported, - can you imagine how many went unreported?!?! "

    surfinhavasu wrote on Dec 1, 2011 2:27 AM:

    " Suicide Hotline phone number in Lake Havasu City is:928-855-8877

    I did not get to read the hard copy of this report, but AT the LEAST the Newspaper COULD have done was include the phone number for prevention! "

    bwebster wrote on Nov 27, 2011 8:18 PM:

    " if someone you know loses a member of their immediate family to suicide you just need to be there when they need you...you don't know what is right for them...just stay in their life and let them know you care. there is no set answer for any type of grief "

    LosTacos wrote on Nov 27, 2011 6:12 AM:

    " Brilliant. Why put this article front page, then run it through the holiday season. Like running an article about kids snorting bath salts and within the article describe exactly what, where and how much allowance it will cost, then expect teenagers not to get high on said bath salts. Advertising suicide during the holiday is like...well might as well put the needle in a dope fiends arm. Rubbing salt on an open wound. "

    1019590 wrote on Nov 17, 2011 8:51 AM:

    " A person having a tough time needs an emotion support group. Most news papers have a guest columnist write articles on what to do or what kind of therapy is needed or what kind of doctor you can start to see. usually that guest columnist has a degree in psychology or something. This could be found in the public service section of any good newspaper. If I missed it in our newspaper please show me. "

    BrightOne wrote on Nov 15, 2011 12:38 PM:

    " I heard the Palo Verde posse uses the Havasu Scan feed. Can you verify Blazo? "

    justathought wrote on Nov 15, 2011 8:16 AM:

    " Lost my sister here just two months ago to suicide. The excruiating pain will never go away and the overwhelming financial mess on top of her death is huge. I don't believe you can stop someone so can't understand the guilt I feel, like somehow I could have stopped her. Others know what I'm talking about. God Bless Her. "

    LHC Dave wrote on Nov 13, 2011 11:10 PM:

    " This is an important topic. My intention is not too minimize the sorrow of those affected by suicide or the possibilty of the problem increasing in the Havasu area; but, the story only reporting percentage increases and not real numbers obfuscates the truth. "

    Hidija wrote on Nov 13, 2011 11:20 AM:

    " Christina, let her grieve in her own way! The only thing you can do, is grieve with her and cry with her! Nothing you can say will help. If she wants to have photos of her son around her, let her, if she doesn't want to clean out his closet, don't ask her to! You can't force someone to "get on with their lives" when it has been pulled out from under them, all you can do is be there for her! I know from experience, I lost my beautiful 16 yr old daughter in a plane crash, and it took me 10 years to come out of my "funk"! Everyone has to grieve in their own way! Give her a Hug for me! "

    Time To Speak wrote on Nov 13, 2011 5:41 AM:

    " Please Todays News run more information in the paper such as written in here --------------------------------------------We are just trying to make the resources available and let people know there is help out there,” he said. “What are some of the unknown signs? Some of the subtle signs? If we were more aware of the topic and more aware of the signs to look for, we can be the ones to refer that person and put them in the right place that could possibly save their life.”
    ------------------------------------------------------
    Sadly as Ms Avis commented "due to work she cant attend" and neither can many others, so getting the word out needs to be done as many ways as possible.

    As for Ms Avis we are very sorry to hear about your loss, Over the years I have had three friends and one family member do the same and its never easy and just Sat I found out that another distance family relative did Thursday.

    So please keep printing on this issue and hopefully maybe even an insert and other papers in the area will also do the same. "

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